Several years ago, when we were new parents, we needed to decide which Christmas traditions we wanted to pass on to our children. We definitely wanted our child and future children to celebrate Christmas as Jesus’ birthday, because that’s why there is even a Christmas Day, after all. But could we also fit the magical fun of Santa Claus into Christmas without taking anything away from Jesus?
For a while, we just opened our gifts on Christmas Eve and had our feast and a cake for Jesus on Christmas Day. That’s it. No Santa Claus. But as our children grew older, they started asking about the jolly red fellow they saw in the mall, and they kept seeing his image on nearly every sign in sight. There’s something cozy about believing in a magical reward for doing good. I could tell that the kids wanted to believe in Santa Claus.
It was a happy day when I read about St. Nicholas and realized that I could have both – a special, set-aside day for Jesus, and a celebration of Santa Claus, too. And I was also happy – no, delighted – to read that St. Nicholas’ Day is December 6th. This gave me a way to extend the holiday season.
Who is St. Nicholas, Santa Claus?
Nicholas was Bishop of Asia Minor in AD 325. He was known for being an all-around great guy, very generous and kind to all. The story goes that Nicholas once threw bags of gold into a window one night, to help pay the dowry of a poor man’s daughter so she could be married. When he threw the bags of gold, they landed into the daughter’s stockings which were hung to dry near the fireplace.
(This is where we get hung stockings near the fireplace)
The Santa Claus that we Americans have grown up knowing – the one who comes down the chimney, wears a red robe, and says, “Ho, ho, ho,” originated in 1822 when Reverend Clement Clarke Moore wrote a poem to his daughters. This Santa Claus is a fictional character, but one that many Americans love.
You’ll have to decide which Santa you want to celebrate – the American version of 1822 or the real St. Nicholas of 325. I think you can figure out ways to mix the two, if you like, and celebrate them both on St. Nicholas Day on December 6th each year.
You can read a lot more about the history of St. Nicholas at the website that I’ll mention at the end of this article.
How can we celebrate St. Nicholas Day, December 6th?
This is only our third year celebrating St. Nicholas Day, so I don’t have a lot of traditions established. You will want to visit the website mentioned below for more on how to celebrate St. Nicholas Day. Here is what we have planned for December 6th this year:
- On the night of December 5th, the children place carrots and/or hay in their shoes. Legend has it that if a child leaves a treat for St. Nicholas’ white horse, he will leave a gift of candy and a present for the child. I don’t tell my kids that the real St. Nicholas will be coming down from Heaven to do this, but I tell them that since St. Nicholas was such a kind person, he has inspired others to do kind deeds like he did. The kids then get all twinkly-eyed trying to guess who would do a “St. Nicholas deed.”
- We like to bake, so this year we will try the St. Nicholas Breads at the St. Nicholas Center website (below), and maybe some cookies from Germany or Switzerland.
- Since St. Nicholas was known for giving to the poor and needy, we are going to go through our belongings in the next few days and have them ready to give away on St. Nicholas Day.
- After our trip into town to give away items, we will have an afternoon tea (with our baked items front and center, of course!)
You can read a lot more about St. Nicholas Day at this website devoted to the day: http://www.StNicholasCenter.org. The site is full of recipes from around the world, traditions from other countries, a kids’ page, and much more. I love to visit this site!
by Lori Seaborg
I think it is womnderful that you were able to include Santa in a way that still left Christ as the focus. Thanks for sharing this!
Merry Christmas,
TNMOM
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this is very interesting and thanks for sharing~ enjoyed your blog.
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blessings,
Teena
We have been “incorporating” St. Nicholas into our Christmas instead of Santa for a few years now. I think it is a wonderful way to celebrate. So many people don’t realize that the legend of Santa came from this very real, godly man!
St. Nick center is my favorite website! Sorry your plans didnt go so well…
was St. Lucia Day better? (our Deacon’s daughter) is always St. Lucy for All Saints- (with real candles on her head!)
We celebrated our 9th St. Nicholas Day this year.
That is when we open our stockings.
Hubby and I exchange our gifts on 23 December, because it is our wedding anniversary.
I give gifts to my children on Three Kings Day/Epiphany (6 January); this usually includes some school supplies, because we begin our academic year on the following weekday.
I just love spreading Christmas out and mixing it up and being different from the norm!
Blessings~
In Holland, st. Nicholas day is a national holiday. Nice, youd say.. but not for us..
Every year, st. Nicholas comes in with his ship full of black petes – a bunch of Dutch people dressed up as 17th century negro slaves, accompanying the white master..
My husband is a descendand from the black slaves brought to the carribean, so this whole play is very hurting to us every year. I know that such a thing (the black petes) is only done in some parts of the world (western europe) and not practiced in america.
Though I thought it was something to think about.. it makes the whole feast very, VERY controversial and very hurting to all black people whose ancestors were once REALLY in a ship like that, only not singing and dancing, but being beaten and working themselves to death..